Are Millennials Really Doomed?

Natalie leads the worship and missions departments at AU Chi Alpha and is passionate about taking students deeper in their relationship and love for Jesus.  She loves writing music, John Steinbeck, good coffee, and her family.

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When I visited home a few weeks ago, I went to see the second Avengers movie with my family.  On the way home, my mom said she had a hard time tracking with all the movements on the screen.  

There were so many colors and actions and moving parts, and her mind didn’t work fast enough to keep up.  She’s a middle school teacher, and she said all her students absolutely loved the movie.  They loved the different story lines and humor and heroes and villains and actions.  

They came to school raving about the film.  My mom, however, couldn’t understand how someone could think up such plots or twists or stories. She mentioned that it was a generational thing.  Born in the 60s, my mom wasn’t surrounded by technology or movies with the amount of CGI we have now.  

There were no movies like Avengers back then.  Her students, however, grew up learning technology quickly. Their minds work differently and have an entire world full of information and creativity at their fingertips that their parents just never had access to.  

I hear the negatives in this. With technology and social media and the internet, Millennials are perhaps the most connected generation, but also the most disconnected.

This generation longs for change in a world where change needs to happen. And they’re willing to put the work into it to see it happen.

 When everything is in the palm of their hands, where is the need for relationships?  Where is the need for real life interactions?  With everything moving so fast, can we stop to understand the beauty of a waterfall or the joy of watching a young child swinging at the playground?  If we’re always plugged in, will we ever be able to enjoy the laughter of a friend or go beyond communicating a payment at a cash register?  This is a concern for my generation, and I think it’s valid.  

However, I think there are always two sides to each coin. Millennials might seem disconnected, but they are longing for connection. They’re longing for relationship and to just be known.  

This is a generation that’s tired of seeing past generations of problems and hardships and unrest.  They’re a group of young adults who long for peace in the world.  They want to see change and find the answers to their parents’ problems.  They want to find long-term answers to the issues of development in developing countries and poverty in American urban centers.

This generation longs for change in a world where change needs to happen.  And they’re willing to put the work into it to see it happen. I think we’re dealing with one of the most creative generations.  One of the most innovative generations.  One that’s not afraid to push boundaries and try to create new things.  And I think Millennials have the chance to have the greatest impact on the world and on the people around them. What if those things came together?  Community and innovation, relationship and creativity.  What if they used their minds to find creative and new solutions to end world hunger?  Or to invent new and effective medicine that no one has ever thought about yet?  Can you imagine the impact they’d have? 

So no, I don’t think millennials are doomed.  In fact, I think they can bring the greatest change yet if we let them.

Indie Music: A Definition & Spotify Playlist

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The following post is part of a series called Summer Worship Ideas put together by Natalie Hill and Kevin Kusunoki. You can access other posts in this series via this link. 


The broad genre of independent and alternative music isn't really tied down to a specific sound or style.  It's more known for its inventive use of instruments and sounds that other genres don't often use and unique, poetic ways of writing lyrics.  These sounds could range from bluegrass to electronic, but what makes them unique is that they're innovative.  This playlist consists of a range of styles, with songs from bands who care about the creativity of the sound of their tunes just as much as their lyrics.

We're Ready to Reach the City

Cones & Chi Alpha || Welcome Weeks at American University || Fall 2013

Cones & Chi Alpha || Welcome Weeks at American University || Fall 2013

Last night, our Indiegogo Campaign for Reach the City ended and we saw an incredible surge of generosity during the past 48 hours. I speak for the entire DC Chi Alpha team when saying this — thank you. For those that gave, asked others to join them in giving and helped promote our content during the past two weeks, we are extremely grateful. 

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Written by Blane Young

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We raised $6,706 with just over $2,000 coming in during the previous two days. It seemed like everyone rallied around this, from current students to long-term supporters of Chi Alpha Missionaries. Although we didn't meet our goal of $10,000, we all consider this a major success. 

For those wondering, this was a flexible funding campaign (unlike Kickstarter projects) where we'll still receive the money we raised even though we didn't meet our entire goal. 

And it gets better. 

Yesterday, I received a call that Centerpointe Church at Fair Oaks in Fairfax, VA would be sending a check for $500 to help DC Chi Alpha in our Welcome Weeks Programs and that Cornerstone Church in Bowie, MD would be sending us a check for $2,000. 

Thus, we'll have a total of $9,206 to enable us to connect with hundreds of incoming freshmen in just a few weeks! Last year, we raised just around $8,000 and so, this is a record-breaking year. 

It couldn't have happened without you. 

As we use these funds to connect people into our Christ-centered communities on campus, I'm eager to share stories of students who were directly impacted by your generosity. 

One of my favorite things about the start of the academic year is that we aren't just inviting students to attend our events, but in a year or two, these are the students that are going to be leading our ministry and welcoming others just as they were welcomed.  

Someone Knew Me in Less Than 15 Minutes

My mom, dad, and myself pull up outside of Letts Hall of American University with the back of our rented car filled with suitcases, Ikea bedding, and Rubbermaid tubs. We park. We get out. Then, out of nowhere, strangers with matching T-shirts suddenly start asking us if we wanted help moving in. Seeing as my dad was the only source of muscle, we all quickly agreed. Anyways, I run inside, find my room, and show these random people who said they were with Chi Alpha (a fraternity maybe?) where to take my stuff. As I was helping my helpers, a volunteer started asking me really specific questions, starting with the ones below (paraphrased since my memory isn’t great):

Written by Haley Holtzscher (Facebook)

Written by Haley Holtzscher (Facebook)

KP: Are you from Tulsa, OK perchance?
Me:…Yes. Why?
KP: I don’t suppose you know of a church called Believer’s Church, do ya?
Me:…Yes. I’ve gone there since I was 2. *laughter*
KP: Do you know someone named Anna Saah?
Me: Whoa, yeah! How do you know her? She was one of my youth leaders!
KP: So your name’s Haley, right? Anna mentioned you while we were in Ibiza.
Me: It is indeed. How did you know? This is so weird! So about this Chi Alpha thing…

I had been on campus for less than 15 minutes and already someone knew me. Kera Package (KP in the conversation above) had no way of knowing where I was from since we had taken off all identifying tags from my luggage and tubs and I hadn’t actually introduced myself since I’d been caught up in trying to get into my first dorm room. To this day I have no idea how Kera knew, out of hundreds of students she must have helped, that I was the girl Anna had talked about. After helping me move in, Kera invited me to some AU Chi Alpha (also known as AUXA) events later that week. I said yes immediately. If my youth leader from back home was friends with this random person, then I knew I could trust her suggestions. 

So that was my entry into the AUXA world. Yeah, I flaked out on going to a few of the events I had committed to but I also knew that I had an accountability buddy who wouldn’t let me continue to make excuses. 

I showed up at AU with finding a church/faith community as one of the last things on my mind so imagine my surprise when I had joined Chi Alpha by the end of my first day on campus. Sometimes all it takes is helping a stranger move some boxes into their new home to create a solid foundation for their college experience. This foundation wasn’t what I wanted, but it must have been something that I needed or else Kera wouldn’t have found me so quickly. 

Keeping People the Focus of Ministry

Ministry is about less.  Somehow in a year I’ve turned ministry into processes, into the execution of my skills, into delightful experiences.  None of that is wrong.  Without my talents and methods I would be useless.  But ministry is not about these additives.  Ministry is about people.

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 Written by Nick Holmstedt

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It seems so obvious.  I have found this truth multiple times.  Then I bury it beneath the rubble of my profound methodology, my ingenious hypotheses, my selfless preoccupation with myself.  Each time I turn around and so “Oh yeah, I need to be ministering TO others.”  A friend recently reminded me that “We are filled up to be poured out.”  As I have been staring my future down I wonder why I commit to that admittedly daunting path of ministry. 

And then I re-engage in community.  My processes crack against the spirit of my friends and family and the fault-line is real discipleship.  Ministry is the meeting of people and process and God the molten lava that underlies and causes that powerful unity. 

How can we live focusing primarily on people?  How do we avoid wrapping ourselves in methods at the sake of relationship?

I’m no expert, but I’ve found a few mental checks keep me lined up with God’s will here:

1)      Keep people on your mind and be praying for them.  It’s easy to focus on the next task, your objective.  Write down names on post-it notes and every time you see that note, pray for the person.  When you hop on Facebook, choose the top two or three people and say a 5-second prayer.

2)      Keep in touch with people.  It’s easy to forget people are primary when our interactions are limited.  Reach out and let someone share a story.  Do it as often as you can- which might be different for you than me. 

People’s worth will lead you to engagement in and of itself- just give people an opportunity to renew your hearts over and over again.